Am I the Asshole?

A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.

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Top posts from /r/AmItheAsshole

Karma Comments Title
59,864 2 UPDATE: AITA for wanting to go to the funeral of a girl that I helped get addicted to drugs?
submitted 3 weeks, 2 days ago
40,015 4,445 AITA for suggesting my 7yo name his new stuffed tiger "Tig Bitties"?
submitted 1 week, 6 days ago
36,663 1,440 So we decided to fuck with the sub.
submitted 3 weeks, 1 day ago
35,161 5,219 AITA for telling my extended family how many men (roughly) my sister has slept with after she outed our youngest brother as a virgin?
submitted 3 weeks, 4 days ago
33,948 3,775 AITA for asking my brother not to bring his boyfriend to my wedding?
submitted 3 days, 8 hours ago
33,807 1,098 AITA for eating all the delicious ham? (Pic included)
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
33,641 2,497 AITA for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me?
submitted 1 week, 4 days ago
32,504 2,466 AITA for keeping my website up after being asked to remove it?
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
29,019 2,504 AITA for telling my family that if they gift us money for our wedding, there will be no "strings attached" or we will politely decline it?
submitted 1 month, 2 weeks ago
27,617 3,197 AITA for getting upset that my sister’s fiancé pulled me aside and patted me down at their wedding?
submitted 2 weeks, 1 day ago
27,277 2,311 AITA for honking at another driver who cut in front of me at a drive thru each time she tries to order
submitted 3 weeks, 5 days ago
27,175 6,688 AITA for kicking out my brother, who our parents have previously disowned, because he told my (now ex) fiancé that I cheated 9 years ago?
submitted 4 weeks ago
27,096 1,085 Hey Assholes, you're doing it wrong.
submitted 2 months, 4 weeks ago
25,868 789 META: Warning for all posters: what happens in AITA does not stay in AITA!
submitted 1 month, 3 weeks ago
25,479 1,869 WIBTA if I gave my neighbor the rest of his cigarette butts back?
submitted 1 month ago
25,270 879 UPDATE: AITA for refusing to give my newborn’s social security number to my aunt.
submitted 1 month, 3 weeks ago
25,062 3,752 AITA For ignoring a coworker who refused to use my actual name?
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
25,026 2,091 AITA for not telling my wife that I picked her daughter up drunk from a house party?
submitted 2 months, 2 weeks ago
24,981 3,658 AITA For Firing An Employee After His Parents Died?
submitted 2 months, 2 weeks ago
24,841 5,379 AITA for selling my daughter's car after discovering her texting & driving?
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
24,710 7,830 AITA for telling cashier that wasn’t the girls credit card?
submitted 1 month ago
24,551 4,292 AITA for grounding my daughter because she called my SIL a “slut”?
submitted 1 week ago
24,524 3,420 AITA because I ate more than "my share" of a 6 foot party sub last night?
submitted 1 month, 2 weeks ago
23,937 1,052 AITA for suggesting that my sister chose an easy love?
submitted 1 month, 2 weeks ago
23,882 929 WIBTA if I give the restaurant the name and phone number of my tinder date who LITERALLY JUST got up and left after the meal when it came up that we should split the check?
submitted 2 months ago
23,859 3,145 AITA for turning the home I inherited into an Airbnb? My sister thought it would be a “family home” forever.
submitted 1 month ago
23,460 3,169 AITA for not wanting to pick up my wife from the airport at 12:30 AM?
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
23,221 1,344 AITA for spiking my leftovers with Ghost Pepper flakes to teach my brother a lesson
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
23,189 2,275 AITA for asking my cousin not to bring his autistic son (my nephew) to my home any more because of a romantic attachment to my wife?
submitted 3 days ago
22,711 3,550 WIBTA if I called off my wedding because my fiance does not want my son to bring his boyfriend to the wedding?
submitted 2 months, 3 weeks ago
22,699 2,963 AITA for not outing my dad, who I found on a gay hookup site?
submitted 3 weeks, 6 days ago
22,655 361 UPDATE to AITA for telling my disabled son and his partner I disapprove of their relationship?
submitted 1 month ago
22,614 6,629 AITA for using money we "earmarked" for our 6 month old's college fund to buy back the exact 1972 Ford Bronco I owned as a teenager?
submitted 3 weeks, 5 days ago
22,494 2,472 AITA for not giving my empty row of plane seats to a mother with toddlers?
submitted 1 week, 5 days ago
22,260 4,722 WIBTA for asking my ex's daughter to stop calling me "dad"?
submitted 2 months, 3 weeks ago
21,975 1,080 AITA for privately asking my friend about the paternity of her children
submitted 2 months, 3 weeks ago
21,938 1,883 AITA for being honest with my nephew about where I was for most of his life?
submitted 4 weeks, 1 day ago
21,863 1,072 META You can still be the asshole if you were wronged
submitted 3 months ago
21,768 4,007 AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married?
submitted 1 week, 1 day ago
21,618 4,035 AITA for refusing to accept my parents "gift" and then walking out.
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
21,332 764 AITA for cancelling on a group of very out of shape women that hired me to train/guide their hikes?
submitted 1 month, 2 weeks ago
20,824 3,175 AITA for exposing my sister's lies about why she wanted a house keeper?
submitted 1 month, 3 weeks ago
20,687 593 AITA for possibly stealing from a convenience store multiple times and not saying anything about it.
submitted 2 weeks, 6 days ago
20,668 2,007 AITA for telling my grandma she looks like Ronald McDonald because she wouldn’t stop telling me I look like a bull with my nose ring in?
submitted 4 days, 21 hours ago
20,540 1,911 AITA for spraying the neighborhood kids with my garden hose?
submitted 1 month, 3 weeks ago
20,268 3,583 AITA for buying an extra airline seat (and utilizing it) even though I don't need it?
submitted 2 months ago
19,916 4,477 AITA for telling our surrogate we don’t want the baby?
submitted 1 week, 3 days ago
19,898 2,917 AITA for serving a pregnant woman a non-alcoholic cocktail?
submitted 4 weeks ago
19,886 2,895 AITA for refusing to pay at a restaurant that was false advertising?
submitted 1 month, 1 week ago
19,743 187 AITA for not helping an obese woman get up after she refused my help the first time?
submitted 1 day, 6 hours ago